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 Crossroads (1986)
IMDB rating: 6.50
Plot: Eugene is an extraordinary talent in classic guitar, but he dreams of being a famous Blues guitarist. So he investigates to find a storied lost song. He asks the legendary Blues musician Willie Brown to help him, but Willie demands to free him from the old-people’s prison first and to really learn the blues on the way to it’s origin: Mississippi Delta. Eugene doesn’t know yet about Willie’s deal with the devil, that he now wants to revoke.
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Directors: Hill Walter
Actors: Macchio Ralph,Seneca Joe,Morton Joe,Judd Robert,Vai Steve,Dennis Lipscomb,Carey Jr. Harry,Hancock John,Arbus Allan,Fann Al,Taylor Wally,Russ Tim,Donaldson Tex,Drama,Music,Mystery,Romance,
Help. In love with a married man at work. We have not had s.x, just deep talk. Help.?
I’m a 26yr old woman. I started working in an office 3 months ago. I’ve developed a deep friendship with a married man here. He got married only 6 months ago, first baby on the way. The thing is, hes so exotic. Hes only 5 years older and we have had lots of ‘cosy’ chats. We go to lunch together, we have even gone on some evening drinking sessions in pubs with roasting fires when his wifes away. We have never done anything pysical, only a bit of smooching, i wouldnt go the whole way. We are at a real crossroads. He wants me and i reallllly want him. We are so comfortable we discuss this. We are constantly texting. He even bought me a whole Joe Malone Giftset for my birthday, very expensive gift and he doesnt earn much money. It breaks my heart when the wife comes in here sometimes, its like a kick in my stomach. He says he really wants to be with me but feels so trapped. We are now going away for a night together, yet again, i’m not having s.x with him, and he wouldnt wtih me. We just talk abuot everything. He suffers from depression and anxiety, and so do i. His wife knows nothing about this, he cannot discuss it,she doesnt understand him. Please help me. We both say we feel love.
You are a b*tch and he is a c*nt. You say it breaks your heart when the wife walks in well do you not think it will break her heart to find out about you - and there is also a BABY on the way. Thats right girl - strip a child of its father before it is even born. Stay away and find someone who is free. You say you haven’t had sex but he is still betraying his wife emotionally and from what you say it seems only a matter of time. Think how you would feel if a husband of yours did this to you.
Sunshine Smile | Feb 03, 2010
You will have to break it off. It may be painful, but he married someone else for "better or for worse". I was the married man in a similar scenario several years ago, and had to break it off or something would have happened. He should be sharing his heart to heart conversations with his wife. You two are having an emotional affair and he is cheating on his wife. Let him go.
Rick31 | Feb 03, 2010
Im gona be honest….the first thing that comes to my mind is that you are a bitch.
He is married and has got a baby, you should cancel that night away and find someone who is available. just be friends with this guy, dont ruin his new family
Lady | Feb 03, 2010
he loves his wife and kid and wants you on the side, hes goinjg to tell you oh honey i love you im going to get divorced and be with you and it will never happen . god said the heart is more terrible than any thing else . guard your heart, he said stick with your mate and dont have a desire for another persons mate, your being used , your thinking with your sex organs and heart , not your head, well have a good time destroying his family life tell his baby who you are in 5 years ans thanks for telling me , jerry jerry jerry . or will it be morey povich and he saying hes not the father or he is the father of the child you have but hes not going to be with you cause hes already with HIS WIFE AND KID
Mark | Feb 03, 2010
you are sad and disgusting get a life may god forgive you you are so sad what is your problem you must be a fat girl who will fall in to bed at the drop of a hat get a life fat girl
wag | Feb 03, 2010
Troll?
you need to stay the hell away from this man, he is not available and you will be a homewrecker. Have you any heart for this woman and her baby? I hope you get married and ur husband has an affair. He wont leave her for you, you are fun easy and exciting to him..for now….but you will only be the other woman always competing for his true love and affection…Ick you are discusting
AmiNa | Feb 03, 2010
Leave him well alone. He is in a mess, and you are getting involved in harming four peoples lives - yours, his, his wife’s, and his child’s. He should be spending his time and money with his family.
His wife has known him longer than you have, so how can you understand him when she doesn’t? Look at this situation objectively. Can you see that there is a possibility that he is using you, that "my wife doesn’t understand me" is the oldest come-on line in the book?
I know it is hard, but, morally, you need to let him work things out with his non-understanding wife.
Sorry to sound so hard, but you really need to hold yourself together and find friends who have fewer complications.
RICHARD D | Feb 03, 2010
Home-wrecker you make me sick-get your own man!!!!
poison_angel32 | Feb 03, 2010
Married men always tell the women they want to have sex on the side with that their wives dont understand them. Obviously, if they told the women that they love their wives and have great relationships with them but still want a bit of strings-free sex on the side, very few women would be stupid enough to fall for that. It is normal for immature men struggle with their responsibilities, and seek ways to distract themselves, but he married this woman because he wanted to, he got her pregnant by having sex with her because he wanted to, and now she’s pregnant and not so keen on sex he needs to tell you lies to make you have sex with him instead. That is obviously where it is heading. If he actually loved you he would have left his wife already to be with you. People leave spouses who are sick, pregnant, invalids or have houses full of children all the time.
If he has any kind of communication problem with his wife, then they need to seek couples counselling to facilitate better understanding, that’s what responsible adults do, they dont run off and have an affair with someone else to console themselves. Stop having this emotional, soon-to-be-sexual affair and tell the man to act like the husband and father to be that he is.
Magenta | Feb 03, 2010
Never get your honey where you get your money. The economy is really bad and you or he or both of you could lose your jobs. He is married. If he fools around with you while married, and you two end up together and married, he WILL fool around on you too. You will find someone worthy of your love who Is Not Married. Drop this dangerous relationship now before it goes too far.
Judy F | Feb 03, 2010
Just have sex with him. You will know what to do after doing with him. He sounds like he wants you too. It’s amazing after a real heavy intimate moment what becomes of the aftermath. It’s a Cognitive way of sorting your situation out.
Gary | Feb 03, 2010
they always say their wife doesn’t understand them, and they feel trapped so they can get you to believe they love only you, but what your doing is so wrong, and it could be you who gets hurt so unless you see divorce papers I would cut all ties with him. Its really going to break your heart when he begins to feel guilty and cuts you off completely.
jude | Feb 03, 2010
Put yourself for one minute in his wife’s shoes and then imburse yourself in that emotion and then you will have the answer you seek. Actually what is the question that you are asking? I can’t imagine most of the child like people on here will give you the answer you are looking for, there answer will be damming and they will lay into you about spitting up families etc. I won’t judge you as they will, but I think that its likely that his pregnant wife has gone of sex, or he no longer fancies her and if I have to be blunt its probably not about you being you, its more likely that its any port in a storm at this point in his life. If you need the answer you are seeking, sleep with him, then when his guilt kicks in he will drop you like a ton of bricks and you will feel stupid and used, wake up and see where this is heading before it gets very messy and hurtful, and the fact you work together is really a very bad idea, what will it be like in the office when his child has been born and he comes in with his new baby and his blooming wife and your sitting there knowing you slept with him, where the hell is your human integrity, …………………..actually I think I did just judge you, sorry.
Tao | Feb 03, 2010
you think that not having sex with im yet makes you a less of a whore? it doesn’t….
broken angel | Feb 03, 2010
Getting involved with a married FATHER is selfish. Imagine how hurt his FAMILY will be when they find out. Besides if he really loved you so much, he’d break it off with his wife no matter how "difficult or complicated" the situation is.
Samantha | Feb 03, 2010
You are 26 years old, there must be a reason why you are not involved with any other men except this married, soon to be a Father idiot. You are kidding when you say you have not gone all the way, just smooching is a hidden intent on your part and on his. He suffers from depression and anxiety because he is cheating on his wife. And you are falling for his stupid excuses. If he has only been married for six months, it did not take him long to "find" another woman (like you), did it. What makes you think that this man will ever be "true" to you once he leaves his wife and his soon to be child? You need to act 26 years old instead of acting like a teen in heat. I do not feel sorry for you in the least. Get another boyfriend that is not attached. I am sure his wife understands him more than you could ever realize, I feel sorry for her and his child.
dudleydo | Feb 03, 2010
Hi luckyinl. , i know it is very tempting to fall in love with people who are forbidden property and stuff. But the fact remains that he is married and will have a child soon. Most men get desperate when their wives are expecting, many husbands get quite agitated coz the wives would turn them down quite often. It can be hard, coz it may be a lot for you to sacrifice, a friend, a lover, a confidant, a buddy to drink with, etc.. but trust me, you will loose out on more later that is your self esteem. Right now, it may not matter to you, and all this may sound like bullshit, but when you find a guy that you like and when you look back at your past, there will be a part to regret. Let that not happen. Help your self esteem and respect Now, when there is still time. All the Best and may God give you the streghth you need to, let him go.
Karma Karna | Feb 03, 2010
on that night you get with him, just have anal and then oral by a roasting fire, you will really feel the warmth up your @$$ and in your throat, now thats deep
Major | Feb 03, 2010
He does NOT want you or he would have left his wife already. Who do you think you are to be upset when his wife turns up???? you put yourself in her shoes if she knew the truth. Get some balls and go and get your own man, if you can. Stop being a fool. At least you will smell nice when you go out on the pull.
Penny | Feb 03, 2010
How can you do this too his pregnant wife? I understand being attracted to someone, but you are single, you will find another man. This man just got married, wife pregnant, and he has the nerve to get with another woman? What a loser! Doesn’t this speak volumes about his loyalty and character? What if you were the pregnant woman, would you appreciate this from your new husband? Hell no, but you’ll do this this to someone else? Ouch! How selfish and low can you be? Remember, do unto others as you would have done to you!
askme | Feb 03, 2010
Its not love, you are both using the situation to self-medicate your depression and anxiety. There are better crutches, this will eventually all come crashing down around you if you dont stop now.
Katherine | Feb 03, 2010