consequences after failure are very miserable . I am dying every moment i am living . But if i die , that’s a severe loss to family. I got the high profile govt job after it , but everywhere i am going , i am depressed . People are fed up with my miserable life . what should i do ????
Take some time off work if you can, but not too long. Always be with friends if you can, it will take your mind off things. Watch movies such as comedies. But most importantly, take your mind off it. Try meet someone else. When you feel better, then think about why it ended, but not until you are over it.
Lambros | Nov 22, 2009
Realize that you aren’t a failure and that your life matters - to your family, and to your friends. I know that when you’re depressed it’s hard to see these things, but trust me your life is valuable and so are you. Don’t give up hope just because you haven’t had success with love yet. I’m sure that someday you will experience all the joys that come with being in love. Just be patient, and don’t give up hope!
If you’re dealing with particularly severe depression you may also want to consider seeing a therapist if you aren’t already.
Best wishes to you!
Kings4Life | Nov 22, 2009
It would help to know the reason you’re depressed to begin with but if it’s related to love then to try and get out of depression you could go to the gym and go and meet new people because going to the gym will increase your self confidence and will make you feel happier in your own skin, when meeting new people you can forget your life and just listen to their stories and that could lead to a happy relationship. i really do wish you the best of luck in your life and i hope that you find something or someone who will make you happy
Joe.. | Nov 22, 2009
Forget your love and think of your family.Be free with every one&mingle with them.For some time it will be difficult but ,in the due course you will be out of depression.
Anantha | Nov 22, 2009
Hi Friend,
Sorry to hear that !
Mine was a 7 year old realtionship that ended in June 09 ! that too when we were looking forward to our engagement !
I can understand and epathise with what you are going in ! Believe me friend I am also going through this from last 6 months !
There are lots of things that can be done !
Try to do what you really like to do ! Listen to music, sing along ! Hit the Gym ! Help others in similar situations that really helps ! Read Spiritual (I recommend you to get the Book "Laws of life" By Franklin Templeton (Manjul Publication), Talk to friends who really care for you !
The best thing to do is to do things you wanted to do always, but you sacrificed or were not were able to do when you were in the realtionship !
For me it was learning guitar ! Whats for you buddy ?
Actually it all depends on you my friend !
We can just suggest !
Everybody has to find his/ her way himself !
There is no shortcut !
You will have to battle it yourself !
Try to forget the past ! I know its very very difficult but still !
Accept that we are at the centre ! Things then become little bit easy !
Take Care
nikhil | Nov 22, 2009
hi my dear frnd
pls dont like that.just think like that life occur at once.so when u made it bored wat is the importance of you are being here.pls accept the truth that the person kick you out is living very happily.so take it as a challenge by living as a gud personality and lead a gud and happy life infront of that person.it makes u confident and optimistic.look, every man in this world hav one karmmam.and if u lead a bad life with depressed mind u never get anything.so ,u r very young and a far to go .so pls conquer all the good aspects of life.plsss forget that.teach ur mind that i’m here in this world for to lead a happy life.pls take it as a challenge and show that person that u lead a happy life without that person.so keep this in mind.it’ll help u.i’m sure.tc byby
ruby | Nov 22, 2009
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wedding*bells | Nov 22, 2009
hi same friend of mine im on the same way to, but still leading a life at first it use to be misirable but u have to change the time n the phase to just dont lisen the sad song n make ur self busy n take more time in ur family adjust with them n just u mingle about the future.And the best think is just u go through the news paper n journals it can help u alot.n go to morining walk everyday thats my friend try to live newly coz the world is so bautiful u cant die for one.thanks see u feel good next time
Tshering | Nov 22, 2009
lol) the ONLY thing tht wud make him hesitant is tht ur a sophmore. but i doubt it will happen. just keep talking to him and "flirting" with him ( but not to much were its like creepy ).. thts all i got, hope tht helps 
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