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IMDB rating: 6.10 Plot: During shopping for Christmas, Frank and Molly run into each other. This fleeting short moment will start to change their lives, when they recognize each other months later in the train home and have a good time together. Although both are married and Frank has two little kids, they meet more and more often, their friendship becoming the most precious thing in their lives. |
Actors: De Niro Robert,Keitel Harvey,Martin George,Clennon David,Argo Victor,Earl Wiley,Bradford Jesse,Giza Richard,Ryan James,Abagnale Sonny,Drama,Romance,
I hurt her (feelings) 5 years ago, and it made me a better person. Should I let her know, or leave it alone?
I started college pretty young (just turned 17). Had some casual flings, then met T second semester. Fell in love for the first time. She was nervous, I was even more nervous (my relationship with my mom left me with trust issues with women, relationships back to early childhood). I stupidly ignored her and made her feel unimportant out of my own ignorance and insecurity. She moved on in a few months; it took me three years to even begin to forgive myself.
Point being that even though we’re 3000 miles apart now, I still feel a connection to her simply because she made me realize that I had to change my ways or else I’d be doomed to loneliness my whole life. We haven’t spoken since May 2006, when I tried to convey this to her (I didn’t really know the scope of the problem back then, only that really messing up with her had helped me become aware of that I had one.) I could tell she was still angry with me, even though over a year had passed since things went sour.
With some help, I feel better about relationships now, and have had dates, had a couple short relationships. Still haven’t had anyone give me the feeling T gave me. She’s with someone else now, although its off and on (on right now).
So me question is: what do I do? Part of me says "try and talk to her! even if she says she hates you, you’ll have a little more closure just letting her know!" The other part says "stay away. you hurt her and shes starting over, just like you’re trying to. don’t risk reopening the wounds".
So what say you, Y!answers?
You can actually tell her that your thankful that because of the relationship with her before and the things you guys went through you realized alot of things from mistakes to the things that you should have done when you guys are still together. You can say that it was a wonderful experience and that you grown up.
But to be honest if I am the girl. I will not mind you and that I will just think that you just want some rebound of the relationship.
For me it’s been years, She is with someone else now. There’s no point of telling that to her anymore. You should just keep that for yourself as she also not communicating with you to tell that she have grown a bit also from the relationship she had with you. Which for sure she also learned something from it but not bother her self to talk to you again for that. Not unless there is a hope that she or you has a chance of being together again.
But If I were you. I will not bother myself. Keep the lessons and move on. If you will just completely open your heart and trust someone else you will be able to give and feel more than the love you had given and felt from T and practice those lessons and give the better you to that new one 
LIC_88 | Feb 04, 2010
Ramon Sawyer